“and [that you may come] to know [practically, through personal experience] the love of Christ which far surpasses [mere] knowledge [without experience], that you may be filled up [throughout your being] to all the fullness of God [so that you may have the richest experience of God’s presence in your lives, completely filled and flooded with God Himself].” Ephesians 3:19 AMP
Paul’s prayer for the Ephesian church was that they would be able to comprehend what is the width and length and depth and height of Christ Jesus’ love for them (Ephesians 4:18) and by knowing the greatness of Jesus’ love for them, then naturally they would be filled with the fullness of God.
That is God’s desire for you! He wants you to KNOW, through personal experience, the love of Jesus so that you will be filled with all the fullness of God.
Do you find it hard to fully trust His love for you? Do you find it hard to believe that Jesus would love you with a love so great that it passes mere human knowledge? You’re not alone. A lot of people find it hard to fully grasp the love of Jesus for themselves because of their past experiences with those in their lives that have hurt them because they were only able to give them “human love”. Human love will always have faults. We as humans cannot love others with a perfect love that Jesus loves us with. So, unfortunately, we can get hurt by others. Or maybe you haven’t experienced “human love” but only abuse and neglect and pain and you are left questioning whether you are even lovable. Let me reassure you, you are lovable, valuable, and you matter!
I believe being a parent is the closest example we have to relate to Jesus’ love for us. But unfortunately even our own love for our child is not perfect love but rather “human love” and so we miss the mark sometimes and react in a flesh (human) manner and we hurt the one we love the most. For example, maybe you had a bad day at work and then driving home the traffic was terrible and you were caught in road rage and delayed in traffic. And then when you arrived home you stepped on a toy and at that moment your child runs to you full of joy and excitement only to receive “human love” because you reacted instead of receiving their love and so you are left hurting more because you hurt your child, and so then you’re left with condemnation and the feeling of how could God even slightly love you because you made so many mistakes. That is how the enemy works to accuse you and blame you and you’re left viewing God through a “human filter”.
My friend, when this world has left you broken or bitter or angry or disappointed. Or perhaps your own actions have left you feeling unworthy, unlovable etc. remember you are looking to God through “human lenses” and that is not how Jesus loves you. His love for you passes human knowledge. That’s why Paul prayed that the Ephesians would be able to comprehend Jesus’ love for them.
If you are wanting to be able to comprehend the unmeasurable greatness of Jesus’ love for you so that you may be filled with all the fullness of God, simply look to Him and ask Him to give you the understanding to be able to comprehend His great love for you today.
When you are able to comprehend Jesus’ love for you, you will then be filled with all the fullness of God!

